📋 Table of Contents
- What Is a Funeral Order of Service?
- Why Are They Important?
- What to Include in Your Order of Service
- Front Cover Essentials
- Inside Pages Content
- Back Cover Ideas
- Wording Examples & Templates
- Design Tips & Ideas
- Choosing Photos
- How Many Pages Should It Be?
- Choosing Paper & Size
- How Many Copies to Order
- Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Printing Options
- Frequently Asked Questions
What Is a Funeral Order of Service?
A funeral order of service, also known as a funeral programme, memorial service programme, or funeral booklet, is a printed document given to attendees at a funeral or memorial service. It serves as both a guide to the ceremony and a keepsake to remember the person who has passed away.
Think of it as a roadmap for the funeral service. It tells guests what will happen during the ceremony, when to stand or sit, which hymns to sing, and when different people will speak. But it’s much more than just a schedule – it’s a beautiful tribute that captures the essence of someone’s life.
A funeral order of service is a printed booklet (typically A5 size, 4-20 pages) that outlines the structure of a funeral service and includes photos, biographical information, and meaningful content about the deceased.
What Makes It Different from Other Funeral Stationery?
While there are several types of funeral stationery, the order of service is unique:
- Funeral Order of Service: Comprehensive booklet with service details, biography, photos (4-20 pages)
- Memorial Cards: Small wallet-sized cards with a photo and brief prayer or poem
- Memorial Bookmarks: Thin bookmarks with a photo and short verse
- Thank You Cards: Cards sent after the funeral to thank attendees
The order of service is usually the most substantial of these items and serves as the primary keepsake from the funeral.
Why Are Funeral Orders of Service Important?
You might wonder whether an order of service is really necessary. After all, funerals happened for centuries without printed programmes. However, they serve several important purposes in modern funeral services:
1. Guides Attendees Through the Service
Not everyone attending will be familiar with funeral customs or religious ceremonies. The order of service helps everyone feel comfortable by clearly showing what’s happening next and whether they need to stand, sit, or participate in any way.
2. Provides Hymn and Song Lyrics
If you’re including hymns or songs that attendees will sing together, printing the lyrics means everyone can join in – even those who don’t know the words by heart.
3. Honors the Person Who Died
Through photos, biographical details, and carefully chosen words, the order of service celebrates your loved one’s life and personality. It tells their story in a tangible form.
4. Creates a Lasting Keepsake
Long after the funeral, family and friends will treasure the order of service. It’s something physical they can keep, read again, and share with future generations who never met the deceased.
5. Helps Those Who Can’t Attend
You can send copies to people who couldn’t make it to the funeral, allowing them to feel connected to the service and have their own memorial keepsake.
Many families now also create digital versions of their order of service (flipbook format) that can be shared via email or social media with those unable to attend. Most printing companies offer this as a free addition to printed orders.
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What to Include in Your Funeral Order of Service
The content of an order of service can vary greatly depending on personal preferences, religious traditions, and the type of service. However, there are some common elements that most include:
Essential Information Checklist
Optional but Popular Additions
- Additional photos throughout the booklet showing different life stages
- Favorite quotes or sayings of the deceased
- Tributes written by family members or friends
- Charitable donation information (“In lieu of flowers…”)
- Reception details if there’s a wake afterward
- Family tree or list of surviving family members
- Special memories or anecdotes
- Maps to the burial site or reception venue
Remember: there are no strict rules. The order of service should reflect the personality of the person who died and what feels right for your family.
Front Cover Essentials
The front cover is the first thing people see, so it sets the tone for the entire booklet. Here’s what typically appears on the cover:
Standard Front Cover Layout
- A meaningful photo – Usually a portrait, but it could be any photo that captures their personality
- Full name – Some families include nicknames in quotation marks (e.g., John “Jack” Smith)
- Life dates – Either “1945-2024” or written out as “15th March 1945 – 8th January 2024”
- Service details – “Funeral Service | St. Mary’s Church | 22nd January 2026 | 2:00pm”
- Optional: A short tribute phrase – “Forever in Our Hearts” / “Beloved Father, Grandfather, Friend”
Example Front Cover Text
Margaret Rose Thompson
“Maggie”
4th June 1942 – 15th January 2026
Celebration of Life
Parkside Crematorium
Friday 24th January 2026
11:00am
“A life beautifully lived”
Design Considerations for the Cover
- Keep it uncluttered – Let the photo and key information breathe
- Choose fonts carefully – Traditional serif fonts work well for formal services; sans-serif for modern
- Consider a border or background – Floral designs, landscapes, or abstract patterns can add visual interest
- Ensure text is readable – Sufficient contrast between text and background
Inside Pages Content
The inside pages contain the heart of your order of service – the ceremony schedule and biographical information. Here’s how to structure them effectively:
Page 2-3: Order of Service (The Schedule)
This section lists everything that will happen during the service in chronological order. It helps attendees know what to expect and when to participate.
Example Order of Service Schedule
Entrance Music
“What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong
Welcome and Introduction
Led by Reverend Sarah Johnson
Hymn
“The Lord is My Shepherd” (Lyrics on page 4)
Reading
Psalm 23, read by Emma Thompson (daughter)
Eulogy
Delivered by Michael Thompson (son)
Poem
“Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep” by Mary Elizabeth Frye
Read by Sophie Martinez (granddaughter)
Reflection Music
“Somewhere Over the Rainbow” by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole
Prayers and Commendation
Led by Reverend Sarah Johnson
Committal
Closing Music
“My Way” by Frank Sinatra
Middle Pages: Life Story & Tributes
These pages celebrate the person’s life through words and photos. You might include:
Biographical Section
A brief life story covering:
- Where and when they were born
- Family background and upbringing
- Education and career
- Marriage and children
- Hobbies, interests, and passions
- Character traits and what made them special
- Achievements they were proud of
Write in past tense, but focus on celebrating their life rather than dwelling on loss. Use warm, personal language. If you’re struggling, write as if you’re telling a friend about this wonderful person.
Photos Throughout
Scatter photos across the inside pages showing different life stages:
- Childhood photos
- Wedding day
- With children/grandchildren
- At work or pursuing hobbies
- Recent happy moments
- Candid shots that show personality
Hymns & Readings (Full Text)
If you’re including hymns or readings that attendees will hear or sing, print the complete text. This is especially important for:
- Hymns people will sing together
- Poems that will be read aloud
- Prayers the congregation will say together
Back Cover Ideas
The back cover provides a final opportunity to add meaningful content. Popular options include:
1. Thank You Message
Example Thank You Text
“The family would like to thank everyone for their love, support, and presence here today. Your kindness during this difficult time has meant the world to us.
We invite you to join us for refreshments at The Riverside Inn following the service.”
2. Charitable Donation Information
If the family requests donations instead of flowers:
Example Donation Text
In lieu of flowers
The family kindly requests donations to
Cancer Research UK
in memory of Margaret Thompson
Donations can be made online at:
www.examplefuneraldirectors.co.uk/margaret-thompson
Or sent to:
Smith & Sons Funeral Directors
123 High Street, Manchester, M1 1AA
3. Final Photo & Quote
A beautiful recent photo with a meaningful quote, poem, or the person’s favorite saying.
4. Reception/Wake Details
Full details of the post-service gathering including address, time, and any special instructions.
5. List of Pallbearers or Special Thanks
Acknowledge those who carried the coffin or provided special support.
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Wording Examples & Templates
Finding the right words can be challenging during a difficult time. Here are templates and examples for different sections:
Front Cover Wording Variations
Traditional Religious:
In Loving Memory of
James Robert Williams
1952 – 2026
Funeral Service
St. Peter’s Church
Thursday 30th January 2026
1:00pm
“The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want”
Modern Celebratory:
Celebrating the Life of
Sarah Elizabeth Davies
“Sal”
May 1965 – January 2026
Memorial Service
Woodland Crematorium
Saturday 25th January 2026
2:30pm
“She lived life to the fullest”
Simple & Direct:
Robert John Miller
10.3.1948 – 18.1.2026
Forever loved, never forgotten
Opening Welcome Examples
If your celebrant or officiant will give opening remarks, you might include something like:
Religious Welcome:
“We gather here today in the presence of God to remember with thanksgiving the life of Margaret Rose Thompson, to commend her to God our merciful redeemer, and to comfort one another in our grief.”
Non-Religious Welcome:
“We come together today to celebrate the life of Robert Miller, to share our memories of him, to support each other in our loss, and to say our final goodbye to someone who meant so much to so many of us.”
Biography Opening Lines
Start the life story section with an engaging opening:
- “Margaret was born on a sunny June morning in 1942 in the small village of…”
- “Robert’s life was defined by his love of family, his dedication to teaching, and his infectious sense of humor…”
- “To know Sarah was to love her. Her warmth, generosity, and quick wit made her…”
- “James lived a life full of adventure, taking him from the streets of Liverpool to…”
Closing Thank You Examples
Formal Thank You:
“The family wish to express their sincere thanks to all who have attended the service today, and for the many kind messages of sympathy and support received. We are deeply grateful for the care provided by the staff at Royal Hospital during Margaret’s final days.”
Personal Thank You:
“Mum would have been so touched to see so many familiar faces here today. Thank you for taking the time to be with us and for sharing your memories of her. Your friendship meant everything to her, and your support means everything to us.”
Design Tips & Ideas
The design of your order of service should reflect your loved one’s personality and the tone of the service. Here are design considerations to help you create something beautiful:
Choosing a Design Style
Traditional & Formal
- Classic serif fonts (Times New Roman, Garamond)
- Cream or white paper
- Subtle borders or religious symbols
- Traditional color schemes (black, navy, burgundy)
Modern & Contemporary
- Clean sans-serif fonts (Helvetica, Arial)
- Bold use of white space
- Bright or vibrant colors if appropriate
- Modern layouts with asymmetric elements
Nature & Outdoors Theme
- Floral backgrounds and borders
- Landscape imagery
- Green, blue, and earth tones
- Perfect for nature lovers, gardeners, hikers
The design should honor the person while remaining appropriate for a funeral setting. Bold colors and creative designs are fine if they reflect the person’s personality – funerals are increasingly becoming celebrations of life.
Color Psychology
Colors convey emotions. Consider what different colors represent:
- Purple/Lavender: Dignity, respect, remembrance
- Blue: Peace, tranquility, calmness
- Green: Life, renewal, nature, hope
- White: Purity, innocence, peace
- Gold: Value, worth, precious memories
- Pink: Gentleness, love, appreciation
Typography Tips
- Use no more than 2-3 different fonts
- Ensure text is at least 11pt for readability
- Use font weights (bold, italic) to create hierarchy
- Avoid overly decorative fonts for body text
- Ensure sufficient contrast between text and background
Photo Quality & Selection Guide
Photo Quality Checklist
Photos to Avoid
- Photos where the person looks unwell (unless showing their courage)
- Images that might embarrass them or the family
- Overly dark or underexposed images
- Low-quality social media screenshots
How Many Pages Should Your Order of Service Be?
One of the first decisions you’ll make is how many pages your booklet needs. The answer depends on how much content you want to include.
Understanding Page Counts
First, it’s important to understand how pages work in a booklet:
- A booklet is created from folded sheets
- One sheet = 4 pages (front, inside front, inside back, back)
- Page counts must be in multiples of 4 (4, 8, 12, 16, 20 pages)
- The “cover” counts as pages 1 and 4 (in a 4-page booklet)
Most Common Page Counts
4 Pages (One Folded Sheet)
Best for: Simple services, limited information
What fits:
- Front cover with photo and details
- Pages 2-3: Order of service and one hymn/poem
- Back cover: Thank you and donation details
Pros: Most affordable, simple and elegant
Cons: Limited space for photos and biography
8 Pages (Two Folded Sheets) – MOST POPULAR
Best for: Standard funerals with moderate content
What fits:
- Front cover with photo
- Inside pages: Full order of service, 2-3 hymns with lyrics, short biography, 4-6 additional photos
- Back cover: Thank you, donations, reception details
Pros: Perfect balance of content and cost, most versatile
Cons: May feel cramped if you have lots of photos
12 Pages (Three Folded Sheets)
Best for: Services with multiple readings, more extensive biography
What fits:
- Everything from 8 pages
- Plus: Extended life story, 10-12 photos, multiple poems, family tributes
Pros: Room for comprehensive content
Cons: More expensive, may be more than you need
16-20 Pages
Best for: Major celebrations of life, well-known community figures, extensive photo collections
What fits: Comprehensive biography, 15-25+ photos, multiple tributes, detailed family history
Pros: Can tell a complete life story
Cons: Most expensive option, may be too much for some services
Most families choose 8 pages as it provides enough space for meaningful content without becoming overwhelming or expensive. If you’re unsure, start planning with 8 pages in mind – you can always adjust up or down based on your content.
What If You Have Blank Pages?
It’s perfectly acceptable to have blank pages or pages with just a photo and quote. Some families intentionally leave space for attendees to write memories or messages.
Choosing Paper Type and Size
The physical quality of your order of service matters. It’s something people will hold, keep, and potentially treasure for years.
Size Options
A5 (148mm x 210mm) – MOST COMMON
- Standard funeral order of service size
- Easy to hold and read
- Fits in a bag or pocket
- Cost-effective to print
- This is what we recommend for most families
A4 Folded to A5 (210mm x 297mm folded)
- Larger format when opened
- More space for photos and content
- More expensive to print
- Best for extensive photo collections
Paper Weight and Type
170 GSM Paper
- Lighter weight
- Budget-friendly option
- Still good quality but may feel thin
200 GSM Paper – POPULAR CHOICE
- High-quality thick paper
- Feels substantial and premium
- Good for inner pages
- Excellent value
350 GSM Card – PREMIUM OPTION
- Thick, luxurious card stock
- Perfect for covers
- Creates a lasting keepsake feel
- Can be used throughout or just for covers
Paper Finish Options
Silk Finish (Standard)
- Smooth with slight sheen
- Modern, clean appearance
- Colors appear vibrant
- Good for photo reproduction
Uncoated/Recycled
- Natural, matte finish
- Eco-friendly option
- Soft, tactile feel
- Traditional appearance
Ivory/Cream Paper
- Warm, gentle tone
- Classic and timeless
- Softer than bright white
- Creates vintage feel
Lamination Options (For Covers)
Matt Lamination
- Smooth, non-reflective finish
- Protects against marks and scuffs
- Premium feel
- Subtle and elegant
Gloss Lamination
- Shiny, reflective finish
- Makes photos “pop”
- Vibrant color reproduction
Velvet Lamination
- Soft-touch, luxurious feel
- Most premium option
- Tactile, memorable quality
- Significantly more expensive
The most popular and best value combination is: 350 GSM card cover with 200 GSM paper inner pages, silk finish, with optional matt lamination on the cover. This creates a premium feel without excessive cost.
How Many Copies Should You Order?
Ordering the right number of copies ensures everyone who wants one gets a copy, without excessive waste or expense.
Calculate Your Number
Start with your expected attendance and add 20-30%:
Number to order = (Expected attendees × 1.25) + 10-20 extra
Example: Expecting 60 people? Order 85-90 copies
Why Order Extra?
- Last-minute attendees: There are always a few unexpected guests
- People who couldn’t attend: You’ll want to send copies to those who missed the service
- Family keepsakes: Close family may want multiple copies
- Future requests: People may ask for copies weeks or months later
- Personal archive: Keep some for your own records
Quantity Guidelines
- Small funeral (20-30 people): Order 40-50 copies
- Medium funeral (40-60 people): Order 60-80 copies
- Large funeral (80-100 people): Order 110-130 copies
- Very large funeral (150+ people): Order 180-200+ copies
Printing in bulk is more cost-effective per unit. The price difference between 50 and 75 copies is often minimal, so it’s better to over-order slightly than risk running out. You can always keep extras as mementos.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Creating an order of service during a difficult time means it’s easy to overlook details. Here are the most common mistakes and how to avoid them:
1. Spelling and Date Errors
The Problem: Misspelling names, wrong dates, incorrect times or locations
How to Avoid:
- Double-check all names (including middle names)
- Verify dates on birth/death certificates
- Confirm service time and location with funeral director
- Have at least three people proofread
- Check hymn numbers if using hymn books
2. Poor Quality Photos
The Problem: Blurry, pixelated, or dark photos that print poorly
How to Avoid:
- Use high-resolution images (minimum 300 DPI)
- Test print a sample page
- Scan physical photos at high resolution
- Avoid using photos from social media (often low quality)
3. Too Much or Too Little Content
The Problem: Pages too cramped or too sparse
How to Avoid:
- Use white space effectively
- Don’t feel obligated to fill every inch
- Consider adding an extra 4 pages if content feels squashed
- A simple design is often more elegant than crowded
4. Ordering Too Few Copies
The Problem: Running out before everyone gets one
How to Avoid:
- Always order 20-30% more than expected attendance
- Remember people who can’t attend will want copies
- Bulk pricing makes extra copies affordable
5. Missing Important Information
The Problem: Forgetting reception details, donation information, or acknowledgments
How to Avoid:
- Create a checklist of all information needed
- Include reception venue, time, and address
- Add charity details if requesting donations
- Thank those who provided care
6. Leaving Preparation Until Last Minute
The Problem: Rushing design and printing, missing delivery deadlines
How to Avoid:
- Start planning as soon as funeral date is set
- Allow time for proofing and revisions
- Choose next-day delivery options if needed
- Work with experienced printers who understand urgency
7. Inconsistent Design or Formatting
The Problem: Mixed fonts, sizes, or styles that look unprofessional
How to Avoid:
- Stick to 2-3 fonts maximum
- Use consistent heading styles
- Maintain consistent margins
- Use templates for consistency
Before sending to print, verify:
- All names spelled correctly
- All dates accurate
- Service time and location correct
- Photos high quality
- Page order makes sense
- No text cut off at edges
- Hymn/reading numbers correct
- Three people have proofread
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Printing Options: DIY vs Professional
You have three main options for getting your order of service printed. Each has advantages depending on your situation:
Option 1: Home Printing
Pros:
- Complete control over timing
- Can make last-minute changes
- Potentially cheapest if you have equipment
- Immediate access to printed copies
Cons:
- Limited paper quality and size options
- Consumer printers rarely match professional quality
- Time-consuming to print, fold, and assemble
- Can be very stressful if printer issues arise
- May not save money once you factor in premium paper and ink
- Can be hard to get the layout correct
Best for: Very small services (under 10 people) or when you need immediate copies
Option 2: Local Print Shop
Pros:
- Face-to-face service
- Can see and feel paper samples
- Same-day or next-day service often available
- Support local business
Cons:
- May not specialize in funeral stationery
- Often more expensive than online specialist printers
- Limited design assistance
- You need to provide print-ready files
- Quality and service varies greatly between shops
- Might invovle multiple trips
Best for: When you have a print ready file
Option 3: Specialist Funeral Printing Company (Recommended)
Pros:
- Experts and dedicated in funeral stationery
- Free templates and design tools
- Professional design assistance (often free)
- High-quality printing on premium paper
- Competitive pricing due to specialization
- Express delivery options
- Understanding and compassionate service
- Free digital versions
- Unlimited revisions
Cons:
- Requires planning ahead (though next-day available)
- Can’t see physical samples first (though most offer sample packs)
Best for: Most families – offers the best combination of quality, service, and price
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Additional Common Questions
Is it okay to include humor or celebrate life rather than focus on sadness?
Yes, increasingly funerals are becoming celebrations of life. If the deceased had a great sense of humor or loved bright colors, it’s absolutely appropriate to reflect that in the order of service. Include funny anecdotes, vibrant colors, or uplifting quotes if they match the person’s character.
Do I need an order of service for a cremation?
While not legally required, an order of service is just as appropriate for a cremation as for a burial. It serves the same purpose – guiding attendees through the ceremony and providing a meaningful keepsake.
Should I include the names of all family members?
This is a personal choice. Some families list all survivors while others keep it simple. Consider your family dynamics and whether anyone might be hurt by omission. A common compromise is to list immediate family by name and note “and 12 loving grandchildren” rather than naming everyone.
How long does it take to design and print?
With online templates, you can design one in 1-2 hours if you have content ready. Professional design services typically complete designs within 4-24 hours. Printing and delivery ranges from same-day (emergency) to 2-4 days (standard).
Are there eco-friendly printing options?
Yes, many printers offer recycled uncoated paper, use vegetable-based inks, and maintain FSC certification ensuring paper comes from responsibly managed forests. You can also print fewer copies or offer digital-only versions to reduce environmental impact.
When should I order the funeral order of service?
As soon as the funeral date, time, and location are confirmed – typically 5-7 days before the service. However, most specialist printers offer next-day delivery, so even if you’re working with just 2-3 days’ notice, you can still get professionally printed booklets. Start gathering content (photos, life story, hymns) as early as possible to reduce stress.
Can I create an order of service myself without design experience?
Absolutely. Most funeral printing companies offer free templates that you can customize online using simple drag-and-drop editors. You just add your text and photos. Alternatively, many companies (including ours) offer free design services where you send your content and they create the booklet for you with unlimited revisions.
Do I need an order of service for a cremation?
While not legally required, an order of service is just as appropriate for a cremation as for a burial. It serves the same purpose – guiding attendees through the ceremony and providing a meaningful keepsake.
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